What the hell........
Ionno where to even start.......
She decided that we needed to take a break from each other for 2 weeks. Why, you ask.....I'll tell you why.
She wants the break because of the issues that I bring up about her. She wants a break because of her issues. So this all happened Sat. night while we were finishing the dinner that I made for us. (Yeah....your boy even threw down on some homemade Peach Cobbler for dessert and I had the whip cream on tap)
Soooooo on Sunday we talk. She tells me that she is just not used to being in a relationship. She is not used to compromising anything, not used to thinking about other people and all that crap. She has let that “I’m an independent woman” crap mess her up in the head. She says she doesn’t want to lose me and doesn’t have any real issues with me. Its just her struggling with the thinking of someone else. AAAAnnndddd I really do think she likes doing stuff, like this imposed break, that puts her completely in control of the situation.
Seems like she really doesn’t wanna be in a relationship with me.
She tells me she loves me. Gets upset that I won’t come and spend the holidays with her and her family. All that type of crap, but when it comes down to the little stuff that is crucial to a relationship, like intimacy (I’m tombout the cuddling and stuff….not even really worried about sex) it really seems like she doesn’t want to be bothered. If I don’t invite her out to do something then we don’t do anything. If her friends call her up to go do something she does…..but the BULLY never gets invited along. I say if, but If I don’t make actual plans then she WILL end up doing something with other folks and then be like, “Well, you said you didn’t want to do anything.”
And sometimes she squeezes stuff in right before my plans. Like this past weekend I tell her at 2:00pm that I want get dinner at 7. She says ok. She asks where we are gonna go, and I tell her its gonna be a surprise (I was actually surprising her with me cooking). I hear from her at 6 in a text like “I am out with some people at a farm. I am wearing sweats is that ok for dinner”. Who the hell makes plans for dinner at a place you can wear sweats and who the hell is out to some fuckin’ farm when they are supposed to be getting ready for dinner.
When I get up with her and ask what was going on at the farm she tells me “Oh, there were just a bunch of couples out there hanging out….”
“Why did you go by yourself if it was a couples thing?”
“Oh…….well I was supposed to be babysitting for some of the people and then they just decided to invite me out. There were other people there too. More than just the couples. Single people.”
That whole story just did not and still does not sound right.
Damn…as I am reading this my girlfriend is actually kinda seeming like a bitch.
I think that is all types of fucked up. If I get invited to something….the first thing I ask is if it is cool if the girl comes. She doesn’t even think about me with her stuff.
Soooooo anyway……during this little break of her’s she told me I was “Free”. Free to do what I want with who I want. I told her that wasn’t what I wanted and she still insisted. She just told me that if I did sleep with someone that she would want me to tell her. Said she wouldn’t be mad, disappointed, but she couldn’t get mad cause she pretty much “gave me permission”
Well……I didn’t want to sleep with anyone else, but now it is Thursday morning. She hasn’t been calling, just some texts and I’m pissed. So fuck it. I still don’t want to sleep with anyone else….even if it is a fine ass slim Nigerian chick with natural hair and super duper booty that comes from running and a lot of lunges in the gym. An ol’ pretty feisty dark skin thang……but I might try just on principle.
Honestly though….I don’t want to do it. But....if she is gonna try me like that.........
We’ll see what the weekend and alcohol consumption brings.
-the BULLY
She decided that we needed to take a break from each other for 2 weeks. Why, you ask.....I'll tell you why.
She wants the break because of the issues that I bring up about her. She wants a break because of her issues. So this all happened Sat. night while we were finishing the dinner that I made for us. (Yeah....your boy even threw down on some homemade Peach Cobbler for dessert and I had the whip cream on tap)
Soooooo on Sunday we talk. She tells me that she is just not used to being in a relationship. She is not used to compromising anything, not used to thinking about other people and all that crap. She has let that “I’m an independent woman” crap mess her up in the head. She says she doesn’t want to lose me and doesn’t have any real issues with me. Its just her struggling with the thinking of someone else. AAAAnnndddd I really do think she likes doing stuff, like this imposed break, that puts her completely in control of the situation.
Seems like she really doesn’t wanna be in a relationship with me.
She tells me she loves me. Gets upset that I won’t come and spend the holidays with her and her family. All that type of crap, but when it comes down to the little stuff that is crucial to a relationship, like intimacy (I’m tombout the cuddling and stuff….not even really worried about sex) it really seems like she doesn’t want to be bothered. If I don’t invite her out to do something then we don’t do anything. If her friends call her up to go do something she does…..but the BULLY never gets invited along. I say if, but If I don’t make actual plans then she WILL end up doing something with other folks and then be like, “Well, you said you didn’t want to do anything.”
And sometimes she squeezes stuff in right before my plans. Like this past weekend I tell her at 2:00pm that I want get dinner at 7. She says ok. She asks where we are gonna go, and I tell her its gonna be a surprise (I was actually surprising her with me cooking). I hear from her at 6 in a text like “I am out with some people at a farm. I am wearing sweats is that ok for dinner”. Who the hell makes plans for dinner at a place you can wear sweats and who the hell is out to some fuckin’ farm when they are supposed to be getting ready for dinner.
When I get up with her and ask what was going on at the farm she tells me “Oh, there were just a bunch of couples out there hanging out….”
“Why did you go by yourself if it was a couples thing?”
“Oh…….well I was supposed to be babysitting for some of the people and then they just decided to invite me out. There were other people there too. More than just the couples. Single people.”
That whole story just did not and still does not sound right.
Damn…as I am reading this my girlfriend is actually kinda seeming like a bitch.
I think that is all types of fucked up. If I get invited to something….the first thing I ask is if it is cool if the girl comes. She doesn’t even think about me with her stuff.
Soooooo anyway……during this little break of her’s she told me I was “Free”. Free to do what I want with who I want. I told her that wasn’t what I wanted and she still insisted. She just told me that if I did sleep with someone that she would want me to tell her. Said she wouldn’t be mad, disappointed, but she couldn’t get mad cause she pretty much “gave me permission”
Well……I didn’t want to sleep with anyone else, but now it is Thursday morning. She hasn’t been calling, just some texts and I’m pissed. So fuck it. I still don’t want to sleep with anyone else….even if it is a fine ass slim Nigerian chick with natural hair and super duper booty that comes from running and a lot of lunges in the gym. An ol’ pretty feisty dark skin thang……but I might try just on principle.
Honestly though….I don’t want to do it. But....if she is gonna try me like that.........
We’ll see what the weekend and alcohol consumption brings.
-the BULLY
posted by RAGING BULL at 7:17 AM
12 Comments:
B...you sure your girl isn't seeing someone else?
Her story about the couples on the farm smell like BS.
I'm saying though^^^^^
She do be sounding like a bitch, and honestly, that whole squeezing other shit in between a date is not something I'd do to a boyfriend, I only do that to dudes I'm fucking with no prior commitment just so I can get the most out of my time and possibly get another date in and what have you not, ionknow booboo, it sounds suspect as hell though!
if I did sleep with someone that she would want me to tell her. Said she wouldn’t be mad, disappointed, but she couldn’t get mad cause she pretty much “gave me permission”
Dude please tell me that you that trap right there? That is an old school trap. While she will allow u to do this it will and i say again WILL come up in future arguments and shit.
Ive always said there is such thing as too independant.
Why when woman get a man who wanna act right they insist that he fuck up by inviting him to fuck up?
I'll never understand it.
She bascially treating u like your an option that she can take or leave and you got her elevated.
Let the drinks and dingaling games begin!
I love it when y'all tell me to deal out Steve like cards in a spades game
Damned straight! we just done officially told you to let that foaming at the mouf dog, loose on folk!
Step your game up dude ;-)
hmmmm, how old is this chick? It seems like she is kind of young..boy you and your relationships...lol, you need to find somebody on your level.
Hate to say it Bully but your chick is on some bullshit. Sounds like she isn't interested in a relationship with you or either it's another dude
Oh yeah, the permission thing? Sounds like she wants to sleep with someone else and she doesn't want to feel guilty about it.
Sounds like ma may have something else going on.....
Ooo, I hate to break to you, but you're not her man! Real women in a REAL relationship don't pull this type of B.S. I've been on the receiving end of this type of behavior, with full disclosure. Men do it too! Think back, haven't you? Game recognizes Game.
Y'all...I am still with her, thinking a lot of the same things y'all are saying, but still giving her the benefit of every doubt.
Sittin' up here like a chump telling my Co-workers that I am gonna her a professional massage for Christmas. (Prolly that hot stone joint.)
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