Awwww Maannnnn
So......yeah, the Muthafuggin BULLY is back. And I'm alive. I didn't get struck down by lightning or naythan like that there. I onno where to even start, what to tell, what not to tell.....
So I spent last weekend and New Years with the Girlfriend's Fam. (Yeah, I am still with her......my concerns of her having some other shit type something not right type shit are still sorta there, but they are dwindling. I am realizing that really is just overly concerned about how and she is percieved as. I do know that she is not being completely straight up with me (this was confirmed during an argument that started while we were in a nightclub), I just don't know what for?)
Anyway, chicks Fam is mad religious. Her Pops is a preacher and I went to his church........Naw, Fuck all that story. I'm gonna get into the argument story.
So we are in this cool ass night club on the 31st floor of a building that sits right on the River in Downtown NOLA. Spot was straight fly.
We get in the spot and start chillin and DAMN!!!! This story is starting to seem way more fucked up now that I think about it with a sober mind.....anyway.....My girl has always told me she doesn't dance and when she does its like a goofy ass white chick. So we get in there and they start dancin' (Her and her homegirl that we picked up). She says something about me dancing and about me sittin down and shit. I told her I didn't feel like dancin. I was chillin. (Shiiiiitttt, youir boy was trying to cool out and let that Crown kick in). So after a while she tells me I should dance with her homegirl since she liked to dance and since I liked to go out to night clubs and dance.
THE MUTHAFUCKIN BULLY DOES NOT WANT TO GO TO A NIGHTCLUB WITH HIS GIRL AND THEN DANCE WITH SOME OTHER CHICK. THAT STRAIGHT BULLSHIT AND HAD I STARTED ON THAT SHIT I WOULD HAVE TRIED MY BEST TO HAVE ENDED THE NIGHT FUCKING CHICK THAT WAS DANCING WITH JUST OUT OF SPITE.
Anyway...eventually I feel like getting a little bit of lite bump and grind action. Nothing nasty just a little bit o' Steve to thigh/booty action of a nice little 2-step........Did that happen? HELL NO!!
Yep, I couldn't have physical contact with my girlfriend while dancing at a nightclub. Your boy got HOT. Her argument was "I'm not gonna be out her dancing all nasty looking like a ho bending over and shaking my ass all over the place." Shit...she knew better than y'all that is not what I was trying to make happen.
We left shortly there after.
We end up back at her parents place. Where we continue the argument. I'm trying to figure things out.
BULLY: I just don't understand how you would not want to have any physical contact while dancing with your b-friend......Have you never had physical contact while dancing with a b-friend?
G-friend: I don't remember.
BULLY: WHAT? Out of all your longterm relationships, like how you with ol' boy before me for like a year and a half. You can't remember if you ever danced with him. I am not going to believe that.
after like 5 minutes of arguing and her denying that ol' boy before me were even serious (Lie)
G-friend:Ok, maybe back in college.....
BULLY:blah blah blah....You knew that you had done it before and you just sat there and lied to me.
Then things kinda blurr out to a drunken haze. I remember stumbling into the room where her brother was, and then finding my way to my room and going to sleep.
Anyway, 2 nights later (all out on Bourbon Street Right after New Years), with less alcohol in her system we are all tongue kissing and all that out in front of everyone.
Where was the extra overly extreme modesty from 2 nights before?
She either realized how fuckin' wrong she was or There was someone and someones in the club that night that she did not want to be seen by while being intimate with another dude.
All this, and she is constantly telling me how much she loves me.
-the BULLY
So I spent last weekend and New Years with the Girlfriend's Fam. (Yeah, I am still with her......my concerns of her having some other shit type something not right type shit are still sorta there, but they are dwindling. I am realizing that really is just overly concerned about how and she is percieved as. I do know that she is not being completely straight up with me (this was confirmed during an argument that started while we were in a nightclub), I just don't know what for?)
Anyway, chicks Fam is mad religious. Her Pops is a preacher and I went to his church........Naw, Fuck all that story. I'm gonna get into the argument story.
So we are in this cool ass night club on the 31st floor of a building that sits right on the River in Downtown NOLA. Spot was straight fly.
We get in the spot and start chillin and DAMN!!!! This story is starting to seem way more fucked up now that I think about it with a sober mind.....anyway.....My girl has always told me she doesn't dance and when she does its like a goofy ass white chick. So we get in there and they start dancin' (Her and her homegirl that we picked up). She says something about me dancing and about me sittin down and shit. I told her I didn't feel like dancin. I was chillin. (Shiiiiitttt, youir boy was trying to cool out and let that Crown kick in). So after a while she tells me I should dance with her homegirl since she liked to dance and since I liked to go out to night clubs and dance.
THE MUTHAFUCKIN BULLY DOES NOT WANT TO GO TO A NIGHTCLUB WITH HIS GIRL AND THEN DANCE WITH SOME OTHER CHICK. THAT STRAIGHT BULLSHIT AND HAD I STARTED ON THAT SHIT I WOULD HAVE TRIED MY BEST TO HAVE ENDED THE NIGHT FUCKING CHICK THAT WAS DANCING WITH JUST OUT OF SPITE.
Anyway...eventually I feel like getting a little bit of lite bump and grind action. Nothing nasty just a little bit o' Steve to thigh/booty action of a nice little 2-step........Did that happen? HELL NO!!
Yep, I couldn't have physical contact with my girlfriend while dancing at a nightclub. Your boy got HOT. Her argument was "I'm not gonna be out her dancing all nasty looking like a ho bending over and shaking my ass all over the place." Shit...she knew better than y'all that is not what I was trying to make happen.
We left shortly there after.
We end up back at her parents place. Where we continue the argument. I'm trying to figure things out.
BULLY: I just don't understand how you would not want to have any physical contact while dancing with your b-friend......Have you never had physical contact while dancing with a b-friend?
G-friend: I don't remember.
BULLY: WHAT? Out of all your longterm relationships, like how you with ol' boy before me for like a year and a half. You can't remember if you ever danced with him. I am not going to believe that.
after like 5 minutes of arguing and her denying that ol' boy before me were even serious (Lie)
G-friend:Ok, maybe back in college.....
BULLY:blah blah blah....You knew that you had done it before and you just sat there and lied to me.
Then things kinda blurr out to a drunken haze. I remember stumbling into the room where her brother was, and then finding my way to my room and going to sleep.
Anyway, 2 nights later (all out on Bourbon Street Right after New Years), with less alcohol in her system we are all tongue kissing and all that out in front of everyone.
Where was the extra overly extreme modesty from 2 nights before?
She either realized how fuckin' wrong she was or There was someone and someones in the club that night that she did not want to be seen by while being intimate with another dude.
All this, and she is constantly telling me how much she loves me.
-the BULLY
posted by RAGING BULL at 12:18 PM
9 Comments:
But really...I think my girl is a good chick. A good, but funny actin', chick that is overly concerned about what people may think about her.
.....I hope that is it, and not just my judgement being clouded by llloov....Naw, I ain't bout to say that in front of y'all!!
B...she sounds REAL fickle. If she's really a good chick, then you are doing a bad job of pointing out her good qualities and a great job of pointing out all that is wrong with her.
I'm still confused as to why she couldn't dance with you...but wants her friend to dance with you - hmmmmmmm...not making sense to me.
Bully...girlfriend sounds like she has some unresolved issues and lots of baggage. But then again, who doesn't? Ya know, it's a good thing you haven't slayed her with "Steve" yet cause sex just distorts your thinking.
You have to ask yourself a some of questions and give it some serious thought.
How long are you willing to deal with said issues?
Is the relationship worth it? What are the payoffs?
Do you see yourself "dealing" with her issues long-term? Life long?
Do you trust your gut instincts?
Find a close friend whom you trust, who has met her and ask for their honest opinion.
Life is too short to deal with nonsense.
Dawg.... That sounds kinda strange. I'm not accusing anyone, but strange.
Fact:
Don't touch me, but dance with my girl? (Sounds like homegirl played decoy or she just doesn't like to dance like that)
Kissing in public, MAJOR PDA, but couldn't be touched two nights earlier. (Maybe she felt guilty about previous night or just in an area where she could relax a bit more without being "looked" at or just kissing isn't as bad as dancing)
:: shrugs ::
Good luck man!
you dawg! your girl is on some crazy ish and you better figure that mess out before you get caught in some crazy web and her name changes to Sybil.
LOL wow at the level of madness a dude will endure over the perceived "one".
Go dance with my friend? Da hell???
But u all in lubs and shit so work wit it i guess *shrugs*
Instincts are good. Trust them.
Homeboy dawg!
Do I need to find my way up there and start interviews to find yo ass a real girlfriend, daddy??
One that will put out
and that will be a real woman, not a weirded out "having her moments" girl??
Cause let me know if I gotta be doing that, she playing too many "I need attention and shit like that" games, that's all too extra you and Steve need better
and for the record YT don't dance but I'ma grind my salsa, merengue reaggetton dancing self on him ALL night effing long like I thought he was dancing no matter who all could dance with me
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