Saturday, January 12, 2008

Well.......

Your boy is now single.

Figured it would feel better than this.

I know I did the right thing. I been breaking myself for a long time to try and make this work. Sacrificing for a good thing, but I got such a shock tonight.

I feel like a big asshole. Found out she was a virgin and 30 minutes later I break up with her. She was talkin maybe another three months before we got down and prolly not till marriage till we really got serious with the love makin'.

I really do feel bad. Bad for me. Really bad for her.

But in all reality....I'm not really all that happy in the relationship. I don't feel special. I guess she just isn't the type of chick to make a nigga feel special.

I hollared at my boys E-dot, Big C, and young Billiam. Them cats, especially E-dot and Big C, know how I been sacrificing to try to make this work. Hell..E-dot's girlfriend, Black Ho, was all like "WHAT THE FUCK!?!?!?!" when she found out I was still with chick and hadn't poked.

Big C and E-dot was like "Naw man...you deserve a chick that makes you feel special" I know they are right. I just wish I didn't feel so damn bad about doing what I know is right for me.
(They told me that I better shout 'em out. But them niggas is my muthafuggin niggas. My choosen family.)

-the single ass BULLY

p.s.:Chocl8t...since a nigga is single are you gonna shoot your boy that address? We can work a couple things out right quick.

17 Comments:

Blogger YvetteShante said...

Sorry about your break up but I don't think you should feel bad about doing what you think is best for you. I wonder why she didn't tell you from jump that she was a virgin?

11:11 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You did the right thing my man... for several reasons, none of which was the fact that


THIS CHICK WAS A VIRGIN, STILL!!!!!

No I mean, god bless her and all but she was a bit of an ass and quite frankly yeah, she wasn't even making it special, and this is me! telling you this so you KNOW that if my Sour Patch ass self is telling you efforts were CLEARLY not being made in the specialness/make a man feel good department, then homegirl really was slacking


but I don't doubt you can find you some *snaps, snap* THAT quick!

2:53 PM  
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8:24 PM  
Blogger Beana said...

hmmmm

so a basketball ass will only take u so far.

I wish you didnt feel bad but you know deep down you did the right thing...I hope.

8:54 PM  
Blogger edotcarter said...

she don't deserve you dawg. some of these chicks fail to realize what they've got till it's gone. she let go of the bully and his 80% now she's gonna end up with joe schmoe and his 20%.

oh well her loss...moving!

3:41 AM  
Blogger Chocl8t said...

Here's to you finding someone that will make you feel special and love that will be reciprocated! :)

8:25 PM  
Blogger Jazzy said...

You feel so bad that you're already trying to holla at someone else???!!! Men!

Her being a virgin explains a lot of things. I was a virgin until I was 21 and let me tell you people make you feel like something is wrong with you for waiting. Maybe she was uptight about it and scared to tell you.

Did you really break up with her minutes after she told you?

9:58 AM  
Blogger Jazzy said...

How old was this woman?

9:59 AM  
Blogger RAGING BULL said...

She is 27 and yes....minutes after.

The Bully was 20 yrs. 9 months and 3 weeks old when he lost his virginality. I know what it is like to be a late bloomer. I waited for a while for something serious, but I got tired of that and didn't want to not know what I was doing when I did meet someone special.

You might think I have anger issues now. Can you imagine what I would be like if I still had not gotten any? I STAYED with a level of pissivity back then (and didn't know why either).

10:12 AM  
Blogger Jazzy said...

So Bully...you of all people should be able to understand where home girl is coming from.

In the beginning I was not routing for her, but I have to say as much of a bully as you are...she must really be something to hold YOUR attention.

I don't think you two are done yet.

3:03 PM  
Blogger Eb the Celeb said...

Welcome to the club...

and dont feel bad about the chick being single... She made that choice on her own... she wanted you to be her first. especially since she's 27... she aint no little girl experimenting

11:02 PM  
Blogger Muze said...

wow...27? and a virgin? dang.

sorry about your breakup but i'm cracking up at you ALREADY trying to get with someone else, and your friends telling you you need someone that makes you feel 'special'. i didn't know guys said such things. lol.

10:25 AM  
Blogger RAGING BULL said...

Muze, my boys and I are some real grown ass men. We ain't afraid to talk about our emotions and stuff.

8:40 AM  
Blogger KIKI said...

So here I go with my skeptical ass...I'm questioning at the ripe ole age of 27 was she truly a virgin...or is she one of those born-again virgin (you know...I used to be so freaky I scared myself & now I'm holding out for "Mr Right")? And there are other ways she could have made you feel special without sex, and if it wasn't happening then you did the right thing...

Wanna rub my booty? You'll feel better LOLOLOL

3:10 PM  
Blogger Eb the Celeb said...

I meant being a virgin... not being single... thinking faster than I'm typing


now get a pic up so you can start macking the blog world...LOL

12:23 PM  
Blogger MsFreshBananaPuddin said...

Naw that was a smart move. Bcuz once you hit it, she going to be psy-cho. It’s natural to feel bad after a break up, feel better…

6:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

E-dot's girlfriend, Black Ho

lol!!! Didn't we learn anything from the Don Imus incident!!!???


BUt, your right. She should at least give you head or something. Can a mafukka get a blow or some shit? Fuck her Bully.

And I know a booster that can get you that horse if your still lokin for it!

Tittayballs

6:56 PM  

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